Getting Out Of The Game

Recently I've been discussing my "getting out of the game" with some close friends and family members. Now when I say getting out of the game, I don't mean that I am done recording music, but rather me getting into a serious relationship for the long haul. The great thing is that most of those people have wished me well. But, the worst part is that no one believes me to be serious about this. Forgive me for speaking frankly but, I find it extremely rude to knock someone who is doing something positive, and doing it for the right reasons....well some of my reasons are "right reasons."

I spent about two weeks of trying to bring the old feeling back of being a bachelor. In that time i found that the "old game" doesn't exist, and women are extremely different in 2010 in comparison to how they were 3-5 years ago. WHAT HAPPENED???...is the question that I asked a couple of my close knit friends. The answers that I received in response to that question were absolutely ridiculous, astonishing, demoralizing, awakening, but all true.

The game has completely shifted from "good girls want a bad guy" to "all girls want a fly guy." Forgive me for my harsh generalization of what woman want but, after recent experiences going back as far as 1 year ago, I have come to the realization that the woman who still want a "bad boy" are either non existent or on their way to converting into the type of girl who wants a "fly guy"......

oh! sorry. Definition of "Fly Guy": the lame male who does exactly what he sees on MTV or in magazines. He may wear pants that are tighter than the girl he is possibly going to sleep with. He also has no type of personality (which kinda makes him smart because he doesn't mess up when girls offer him a night of completely promiscuous relations). If he is White American he will certainly have one of these 3 things: a musical instrument / a skateboard / random piercing and/or tattoo. If he is African American he will certainly have one of these 3 things: a beat making program / an excessive amount of Nike sneakers / a graphic tee with the picture of a social figure that he has no understanding of.

So with the scenery of women changing so much around me, I've decided that it is time for me to bow out the game gracefully. I had a great run and I wouldn't change anything about it. But i know when it is time to fold and collect my chips and leave the table. I salute you fly guys out there. I know you wont do me proud, but with the way that women are nowadays...you wont have to. I mean really, they just give the legs up for all of the wrong reasons.
Salute!

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"I Determine My Own Success"

"I determine my own success" is a phrase that I started using around the year 2005. I picked it up as a way to help me gain clarity on some of the goals that I set for myself. I realized (though it was the hard way) that by trying to live up to other human beings expectations and goals that I would not have any REAL expectations and goals for myself. Now, let me clear this up by adding that I am a realist who does not always aim for the moon. With that being said, I have learned how to really set myself up for success by aspiring for things that are obtainable by me. And, no one knows me better than I do.

I actually recorded a song called "My Fight Til' The Death", which will be on my group album "Friday Nite Fighters - Blood Bath At The Venue". In the song i explain that I have recognized some obstacles in my life and I have found a way to overcome them. But also, for the ones that I am yet to overcome, I am still a work in progress on conquering those task/goals. In the end no "everyday person" is as successful as they may like to be...but it's really up to them to determine what they deem to be success for them.

-SV